- An obsession with death
- Withdrawing from regular friends and activities
- Verbal clues: "I'm going away" or "I won't see you again"
- Feelings of worthlessness or guilt
- Suicidal thoughts or fantasies
- Giving away possessions or putting affairs in order
- Talking to friends about suicide
- A dramatic change in appearance or personality
- A severe decline in school performance or social interaction
- Marked change in eating or sleeping habits.
Above all, any suicide threats or talk of death - even writings or drawings indicating a desire to die - must be taken seriously, no matter how harmless they may seem or whether the teen dismisses them as "a joke."
What Parents Should (and Shouldn't) Do to Help Prevent Teen Suicide
Be alert to your teen's behavior and feelings. If he or she seems depressed or withdrawn, watch your child carefully. Those thinking about suicide often feel helpless or alone. You can help by communicating openly. Demonstrate your willingness to listen.
If your child is hesitant to talk to you about how he or she is feeling, suggest someone else he or she can confide in. It may be another relative, a member of the clergy, a counselor at school, or your physician ? anyone your child is comfortable talking with.
